UNDERAGE ENGAGEMENT

I’m a 21-one-year old woman who has been sleeping with a fourteen year old guy that I met at a mall when I was with some friends. We have been dating for 8months now and we’ve been having unprotected sex. A part of me knows and feels this is wrong but he makes me feel special like I actually matter to someone in this world.

Before him I never knew how it felt to be loved, both of my parents died when I was young and I’ve always felt lonely and out of place even though I’ve been living with my grandmother ever since. It’s been fun trying to keep our relationship a secret because it forces us to get creative with trying to find places that we can have sex. But one day the closest we’ve gotten to nearly getting caught was when he skipped school so I could come over. While we were having sex in his room him father came home earlier than expected but the good thing was that he came and left right after and my boyfriend jus made up some excuse bout being home early. But that is one of the best parts of our relationship because the thought of being caught is what excites me the most.

That was at the beginning of the relationship though and now him parents soon know bout the relationship because I’m a little over three months pregnant. The truth is though that I’m happy about the pregnancy because me and my boyfriend always talked about wanting to have a family. I know him parents might not like that but we really don’t care about what they have to say cause whether they like it or not I’m going to have our baby.

I know that people that read this are going to think that I must either be crazy or stupid but I always say, It’s is my life and until anybody can walk in my shoes it would be betta you don’t pass any judgment.

Mobay. Jamaica

IT DOES'NT HURT TO HAVE A LITTLE FUN

My first relationship was with a guy whom I didn’t even really love at all. He was definitely in love with me but I couldn’t say it was the same on my part. Although I did care for him it wasn’t love and I think subconsciously I was always looking for someone else who was better than he was. We ended up staying together for about a year because I’m really not gonna lie, the sex was great but everything else about the relationship was lacking. But one day I just decided that I really had enough of settling for what I considered to be less than my standard and I broke up with him. Needless to say he took it pretty badly but we decided to remain friends. But that was a bad idea because as soon as I got into my next relationship that was about three months after, I still found it hard to totally open up to my new boyfriend, I often found myself comparing him to my ex and missing the type of sex I once had. So within the first month of my relationship with my new boyfriend, my ex called me up and I continued to have sex with both him and my new boyfriend. But this only lasted for about two months because I was starting to feel guilty. My new boyfriend was really attentive and loving towards me and I truly felt like I loved him plus more importantly, the sex was getting extremely mind blowing. I eventually broke it off with my ex but even to this day I think he still is hung up on me and the relationship we once had. Nonetheless, I’m still with my new boyfriend, we’ve been together for about 2 years now and things between us couldn’t have been better. The only thing is that he certainly does not know about my escapades in the first few months of our relationship and I’m about to keep it that way.

confused and lovin it - kingston 10 , Jamaica

NUH WA GIMME NONE, SMADDY A GO GIMMIE SOME

I’m a 25-year-old Computer Consultant and I was dating this girl for about a year and half when she invited me to her house for thanksgiving. I wasn’t really looking forward to going to her parents’ house but I was in for a surprise when I met her sixteen year old sister who was still in high school. At first I wasn’t enjoying being at the house because her dad obviously didn’t like me for whatever reason and my girl was acting like we were supposed to be going cold turkey on sex. It bun me u see man. But her sister on the other hand was looking sexy nuh bloodcleet and for most of the weekend was flirting with me but I didn’t even bother to play up on it at first cause I was thinking one, she’s my girl’s sister and two she’s just 16. But damn was I in for more than I could imagine when she came up into the guest room wearing only her bra and panties and was looking at me like all she wanted to do was rip my clothes off. She was nooo virgin and definitely not innocent and way less of an uptight like her sister. So me ended up mashin it up, and it was a lot better than I thought it would be, not proud of what I did but not sad that I did it. Is like she was a pro, I couldn’t believe some of things she was doing to me and the way she was acting. She did a bawl out all through the session. I was so happy my girl and her people weren’t at the house cause had they been there, they would have definitely heard her screaming. But anyways, it was like she was just waiting for the opportunity to get to me but u know how it go. I couldn’t tell my girl about it and she neva did find out. And if she did it really wouldn’t even matter now cause I broke up with her a few months after, not cause of that incident though. Sorry to come off as such a sleaze ladies but it really is after all my confession, I swear say me nuh really stay so on a regulars.

junplum juice man - Long Island,NY

WHEN U A GI BUN BE PREPARED FI GET JUK

One of the best ways to mess someone up is to just to pretend to be their friend. There was this girl I had been seeing for about four months or so and things were going good until she screwed with one of my boys. She swore he was the one who came on to her but I wasn’t having it so I decided to break it off and leave it at that. After a couple months had passed I found a new girl and I eventually started talking back to my ex. We got to the point where we were kinda cool with each other and she started telling me about her new man, who I also known, that had moved down south for school. He’d been paying for her most of her bills plus helping her with her tuition but then she started telling me how she was getting tired of him being away so she decided that she would mess with another guy. So one day after she told me how she slept with this other guy, I called her man up and told him about how she was playing him for what she could get out of him. The next day she called me up and she was crying, talking bout how I ruined her life and blaming me for the situation she was now in. But I actually denied blowing her up but she didn’t believe me and we haven’t spoken since. When I think about I honestly don’t feel sorry for what I did cause for all I know, she deserved it. I say what goes around comes around.


no shame in my game : St.Andrew, Jamaica